Thursday, April 5, 2012

Checking in -- UPDATED

Howdy!  Just figured I would check in.  I'm waiting for a meeting to start and then a lab and I can't figure out what to do with myself for 30 minutes that is useful.  I could continue the grading I was working on...but I am SO tired of grading.  Sigh... I'm just going to have to do it tonight at home if I don't do it, now.  But, I guess that's what I'll do.  I just don't want to look at it right now!!

Anyway...  things are good.  We're 28 weeks!  My scan yesterday showed that all was the same from last week.  So, that's really great.  I haven't heard the results of yesterday's fFN, yet, but hopefully it will continue to be negative.  Their fluid levels are even better than last week, so that's a huge relief.  With all the extra room, they've been moving around like crazy, too.  Baby A has finally gotten out of this weird head tucked under position he's been in for almost two months.  I had my first official NST as well as my normal contraction monitoring session.  The babies were in some kind of crazy kickboxing mood, though, so it was really hard to keep the heart rate monitors on them.  Another growth scan next week and then we also start the more detailed biophysical profile measuring practice breathing and other things that I'm not sure of...  Both A and B have already been caught practice breathing -- so cool to watch!

We're starting to get flooded with shower gifts.  My Skype shower with family back home is a week from Sunday.  Family are either sending us gifts beforehand or bringing them to the shower in Atlanta and having them shipped up here (or driven up with my parents) later.  The growing pile is awesome but it's making my DH crazy.  There's still no real place to put them as the babies' room is still in transition.  So, everything is blocking the living room and my DH is getting frustrated.  I felt like he was angry with me about it -- I can't do anything about it.  We're really in limbo until the semester is over and we can tackle some more organization.  We just need the next three or four weeks to go by as quickly as possible so we can move forward.

My parents bought us our cribs and mattresses and they should be arriving next week!  So exciting!  (Although, I'm sure my DH will be annoyed as they take up more room...)  We ended up going with the mini-cribs because, when we measured the space, we realized that there was no way two regular cribs were going to fit in the room with any reasonable space around them.  We'll figure out the transitions as we go.  If it seems like we need regular ones, we'll figure something out.

I'm feeling very nervous about making sure we get everything we need.  I think the problem right now is that we have some people who have said they have stuff for us, but we're not sure what it is.  And, then we're waiting to see what happens with the showers so we haven't shopped for anything ourselves.  And, of course, there's the major problem that the only store in town is Wal-Mart, so I can't even just do some little shopping here and there each week because there just aren't any good baby stores.  When we're in the "big town" once a week, we don't really have much time for it, either.  My DH is supposed to be sending out a request to the people who've said they have things for us to let us know specifically what they are willing to sell, lend or give us so we can get a little more organized.  It's making me crazy because I really want to get a jump on this.  But, it isn't happening.  I think my DH sees it as "it can all wait until school is out" and I just need to get some things going earlier than that!

But, overall, all is going well.  I'm incredibly ready for the semester to be over.  Tomorrow is my regular OB appointment and my GD test.  Hopefully that will all be clear!

Hope everyone has a nice Easter or Passover if you celebrate either.  I'm missing my family for Passover, but I'm feeling so distracted and exhausted that the thought of even considering trying to do something on my own for it is the farthest thing from my mind!  Thank goodness for a 3 day weekend -- we don't have Good Friday off but we have the Monday after Easter off for "spring" break.  Really just a way to give the students an extra day to spend Easter with their families and then make it back to campus on Monday.  A little bizarre, but I'm certainly not complaining.  I'm very glad for the break!!

Regardless of what you do or don't celebrate, I hope everyone has a nice weekend!

UPDATE -- Well, my fFN was positive.  Which means that things are just uncertain.  If it was negative it means that it is unlikely I'll go into labor in the next two weeks.  Positive doesn't mean that I will -- it just means that I might.  So, I'm going back down tomorrow for another scan and for monitoring.  I'm nervous but trying to stay positive.

11 comments:

  1. So much exciting and positive news in this post! A Skype shower sounds like fun. Tell hubby to get used to having stuff all around, because I'm sure with two, there is always going to be stuff around in not so convenient places (or at least until they are 18). Make sure you upload pictures as you make progress on their room!

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  2. So sorry :( Tell those boys to stay put for a while! Try to stay off your feet and drink TONS of water (my hubby says that any dehydration at all could bring on contractions). Hang in there!

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  3. Boys, you listen to me now - stay where you are for a while yet and stop worrying your mother. There will be plenty of time for her to worry for the rest of your lives so give her a break!

    Do your best not to stress out about the fFN (easier said than done I know) and just keep your feet up and stay hydrated. Sounds like the timing of the three day weekend couldn't be better for you! I'm thinking about you and sending good vibes to your part of the state!

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  4. All right boys, you stay inside! Take care and I will be thinking of you. I'm looking forward to hearing about the Skype Shower (you will make it past that), it sounds so awesome that I might have to copy you. Have a good Passover!

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  5. Sit down and have a big glass of water right this minute. And breathe. It will all be fine -- the positive results are less indicative of labor than the negative ones are for no labor.
    But the rest all sounds very exciting and I wish you could relax a bit more and enjoy it... I want you to get through the 3rd trimester with no more stress!

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  6. Kick your feet up and try to relax, how nerve-wracking. Sending you a TON of non labor, cervix of steel vibes. Boys, stay put for a bit longer, hear me? I think it's great that they're practice breathing already, sure sign that they're healthy strong boys!

    Huge hugs and hope all looks good tomorrow!

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  7. Thinking of you for your appt tomorrow... hoping that your little ones hold on longer and don't decide to say hello too soon. Don't worry about getting super organised... things will all come together. I learnt with my first that the things I over-organised, I didn't need and then the things that I thought I'd forgotten, I didn't need either !! Love to you and bubs xoxo

    PS. I've gone public again... so will hopefully be easier to follow :) xo

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  8. Sending positive thoughts your way for your appointment tomorrow!

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  9. first of all i'm so glad that you're feeling great and the babies are doing so well. and yay for all the support you're having from those around you wanting to shower you with goodness for your boys.

    i was so hoping that the update would be negative (don't usually hear that, do you?!) but i'm sure that everything will be fine. thinking about you and hoping all goes well for tomorrow's appointment.

    i'm really interested in hearing what pram you've decided to go for since you're having twins - i found buying just for one quite daunting...

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  10. I hope those babies stay cooking for a while longer! Keep us posted on your appointment!

    I didn't have a shower until 34 weeks since we moved at 32 weeks and my sister got married the following weekend. I had my family help us set up which was a huge help.

    Have fun at your shower!

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  11. Sorry your test came back positive! Hopefully the boys are nice and comfy and don't make any plans to meet you sooner than is ideal. Look forward to hearing about your appointment today!

    I totally understand the anxiety about getting the room ready but to be honest if you had to you could set those cribs up in the living room and everything would be a-ok. Babies don't give a fig where they are...when they're tired they sleep...anywhere =)

    Sending lots of PTs and {{{HUGS}}}

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